1. Can I remove the categories from the primary menu so that it just appears blank?
2. How can I add pages from the top menu above the title to the primary menu, and then remove the categories?

Here is the site for reference: http://multicoach.wordpress.com/

Thank you!

are NOT categories. They are static pages.

Among the most common misconceptions is that bloggers fail to understand is (1) there is only one page we can post to one any blog and (2) the static pages http://en.support.wordpress.com/pages/ they create do not automatically update. Only the dynamic pages like Categories, Tags and Archives created by the software when we publish a post we that we have assigned Categories and Tags too will update automatically update with posts.

By default the front page of the blog is the post that displays all posts in your blog. Though there is only one dynamic page in a blog for posts (not pages) http://en.support.wordpress.com/post-vs-page/ and we cannot post to more than that one page, we can create the appearance that we have posted to more than one page.

We organize posts by assigning categories to them. You can create a custom menu and add the dynamic categories pages into the custom menu.
http://en.support.wordpress.com/posts/categories/
http://en.support.wordpress.com/menus/
http://en.support.wordpress.com/menus/#adding-category-pages
http://en.support.wordpress.com/menus/#adding-tag-post-format-pages

Here’s a link to a custom menu walk-through > http://onecoolsitebloggingtips.com/2011/08/11/wordpress-com-custom-menu-walk-through/

There are many common errors, misunderstandings and misconceptions when creating custom menus and you can read about them here. > http://wpbtips.wordpress.com/2011/12/19/custom-menus/

For instance - when I haven't selected any menu to be my primary menu, then the pages show up on the menu. Now the drop-downs works fine since I'm using some pages as a "parent", but when I select a custom made menu it doesn't work to use any parents in it.
Does anyone understand? Quite hard to describe, but I hope you will get the point.

I have tried a couple of plugins already but none see to do what I want.

There is no FTP access to any free hosted WordPress.COM blogs and we bloggers cannot install plugins at all. That means you are posting to the wrong support forum. We cannot help you here. Support for your website software and any advice you need are provided on the WordPress.org support forums and they are here http://wordpress.org/support/

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I am using an Elegent theme on my blog and I want to create a drop down menu on one of the custom menu categories.

I would like to select specific posts "top 10" and sort them in any order.

Is there a plugin / combination of plugins that could do this or can someone provide some code.

I have tried a couple of plugins already but none see to do what I want.

Thanks

With a custom menu, you make the navigation links to the categories or tags.

Your newest post has this category: deen (and others) so the link you'd put into your custom menu would look like this:
http://rayszone.com/category/deen/
Then all your posts in that category will come up via your custom menu.

Here are some details how to do this:
http://en.support.wordpress.com/menus/
http://wpbtips.wordpress.com/2011/12/19/custom-menus/

This is a simple idea that would truely be revolutionary to blogging and give wordpress an extreme edge over the competition. Have a photo blog and take pictures on a wide variety of content but want it split up. When you add a category to your post it automatically goes in with similar content. If you like to keep your blog on topic but ever see good off-topic content you want to share you can have a seperate place for that, instead of having to customize and generate traffic for an entirely new blog for a off-topic section of posts.

Found here: http://en.support.wordpress.com/com-vs-org/
"WordPress.com is a hosting platform that makes it easy for anyone to publish online. The software is hosted and maintained by the team here at Automattic, letting you focus on creating awesome content!"

Right now things are not easy on wordpress.com, I am straying away from focussing on the content on my site in favor of attempting to increase the navigation capabilities, These are things that require a lot of maintainance on my part if I ever want to make small tweaks to my site (potentially having to edit every single post ever created).

My information is not displayed in the way I would like it, In essence how wordpress now operates is forcing self generated spam on my site. This will still happen with any solution available to me now and the only way to stop it is to allow proper usage of categories. Their full power and potential is not currently being used.

I know this would be a simple feature to add because its already there, It just needs a tiny bit of tweaking to work in a much more powerful way.

Every feature WordPress adds to make it easier for the user, The better wordpress is as a solution vs other blogging sites.

I also never expected an immediate response and/or fix.

Great! Best wishes to you.

Most of the functionality is there already. It just needs to be tweaked a little to implement it, This would add great functionality for users to control the flow of their blog with little time spent on Automattic's side.

I just want to use it in a way that it is not currently designed

If you want to be creative you can hire a web host, set up a WordPress.org install and hack it to suit you but you cannot do that here.