I checked things out and I show that your shortlinks for each post are different:

Oblivion post
http://wp.me/p3sTqk-p

Launch WP blog post
http://wp.me/p3sTqk-g

Please note that while the shortlinks are similar, they end in two different letters - p and g respectively.

Currently you have Publicize enabled for your Twitter account - that means any new post will automatically be posted to your Twitter account when you publish it. No need to find shortlinks or post it to Twitter separately.

I hope that clarifies things! Let me know if you have any questions.

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Valerie Romande Launches Word Press Blog http://wp.me/p3sTqk-g via @ValHasIt

Thank you for your response but I figured out what the problem is and that has nothing to do with email address.

1) I sent a first publicise to twitter and all works fine. clicking on the short URL takes me back to my current WP page.

2) In another consecutive post, I created that published to twitter, that is where the problem begins. and the problem is in WP.
-- Here is what I did, I opened that WP post in editing mode. The permalent <--- reflects the full address fine . I clicked the button --> get shortlink <--- that short URL that pops up is the source of the problem. when I paste it in the browser, it takes me to my deleted address page.
--- under the dashboard settings I checked --> shortLINK <-- that shortlink when I paste it is correct. So WP has two areas of shortlink and they are not the same.

I still did my clearing browser and my reconnection. no avail. as I said, something is happening in WP.

PLEASE HELP!!!!!!

Please note that reconnecting Publicize with Twitter and/or Facebook does not re-publicize missed posts, but it will work for future posts.

2. Try the full reconnect procedure again detailed at http://en.support.wordpress.com/publicize/#reconnecting-facebook including step 3 (removing the FB app), which is probably the most important step.

3. See also publicize troubleshooting http://en.support.wordpress.com/publicize/#troubleshooting

Note: RSS Grafitti http://www.facebook.com/RSS.Graffiti can be used for posting to Facebook walls if you prefer. RSS Graffiti periodically checks the RSS/Atom feeds that you specify and posts any new entries it finds to the Facebook Walls that you specify. You can get any feed written on any wall (Facebook Profiles, Fan Pages, Groups, Events and Application Profile Pages). In fact, multiple feeds to multiple walls. You choose the combination.

Blog notifications for the admin (like comment moderation, Likes, new subscriptions, etc) are sent to the email address at Settings -> General in the Dashboard.

Personal notifications (like comments on your post, subscription emails, and upgrade renewals) are sent to the email address at Users -> Personal Settings in the Dashboard.

Try the change here first > http://wordpress.com/#!/settings/

See > Issues Changing your E-mail Address > http://en.support.wordpress.com/email-address/#issues-changing-your-e-mail-address

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if you click on this link it points to old address and says page not found. how do i correct that?

Please do let us know the URLs of the posts you're referring to.

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After I try to modify a second post and than the post appear on Facebook and Twitter.

I can be wrong but I think it's a WordPress problem and not about Facebook or Twitter account.

this is a problem, because my database service restructured how they pass variables, so the query is passed through the url now which has broken all of my links. I need to update the links, but I don't want to re-publicize the posts and overwhelm the sites.

Please note that reconnecting Publicize with Twitter and/or Facebook does not re-publicize missed posts, but it will work for future posts.

2. Try the full reconnect procedure again detailed at http://en.support.wordpress.com/publicize/#reconnecting-facebook including step 3 (removing the FB app), which is probably the most important step.

3. See also publicize troubleshooting http://en.support.wordpress.com/publicize/#troubleshooting

Note: RSS Grafitti http://www.facebook.com/RSS.Graffiti can be used for posting to Facebook walls if you prefer. RSS Graffiti periodically checks the RSS/Atom feeds that you specify and posts any new entries it finds to the Facebook Walls that you specify. You can get any feed written on any wall (Facebook Profiles, Fan Pages, Groups, Events and Application Profile Pages). In fact, multiple feeds to multiple walls. You choose the combination.