WordPress.com Forums » Topic: My friend sucides http://en.forums.wordpress.com/topic/my-friend-sucides WordPress.com Forums » Topic: My friend sucides en Sat, 25 May 2013 16:44:52 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.1-alpha-2539 hnsaifi on "My friend sucides" http://en.forums.wordpress.com/topic/my-friend-sucides#post-933619 Thu, 05 Jul 2012 04:24:10 +0000 hnsaifi 933619@http://en.forums.wordpress.com/ Thanks for your sympathy.

]]> thegrumpyitguy on "My friend sucides" http://en.forums.wordpress.com/topic/my-friend-sucides#post-933610 Thu, 05 Jul 2012 03:55:45 +0000 thegrumpyitguy 933610@http://en.forums.wordpress.com/ I'm terribly sorry to hear this. Death is without question the hardest part of life.

I can only hope that he has found the peace he was looking for.

]]> hnsaifi on "My friend sucides" http://en.forums.wordpress.com/topic/my-friend-sucides#post-926429 Wed, 27 Jun 2012 10:56:15 +0000 hnsaifi 926429@http://en.forums.wordpress.com/ Everyone has to leave this world. This comforts one the most. And expressing one's feelings to the other.
Yes I know.
*hnsaifi lol.

]]> teamoyeniyi on "My friend sucides" http://en.forums.wordpress.com/topic/my-friend-sucides#post-925368 Tue, 26 Jun 2012 10:54:14 +0000 teamoyeniyi 925368@http://en.forums.wordpress.com/ Hndaifi, I think you know I do not believe in gods, therefore I do not believe anyone burns in hell or blazes. That may not comfort you, I know, but consider the possibility.

It is very sad when a young person passes, no matter the reason. However I once had a young friend who refused treatment for very advanced cancer. sometimes a person is in great pain. Whether it is physical or mental, it is their choice. We never understand, we feel angry and often we feel guilty too. One thing we can do is respect the deceased's decision.

]]> hnsaifi on "My friend sucides" http://en.forums.wordpress.com/topic/my-friend-sucides#post-924386 Mon, 25 Jun 2012 13:52:14 +0000 hnsaifi 924386@http://en.forums.wordpress.com/

The hardest part is not knowing why. Exactly.
I've posted on his wall (Facebook) blaming him for doing this and asking him the reason for it. My heartache has lessened now. I'm feeling better now.
The main reason for suicide is depression and tension. People don't think what will they do next if their pains do not end even after suicide. As in Islam it is forbidden to kill yourself. And the person committing it will be burnt in the blazes.
The parents are not guiltless too who don't know how to treat a boy of 18. They treat him like a kid of 7 years. And who handed over a gun to a boy who's even younger than 18?

]]> teamoyeniyi on "My friend sucides" http://en.forums.wordpress.com/topic/my-friend-sucides#post-923456 Sun, 24 Jun 2012 09:15:52 +0000 teamoyeniyi 923456@http://en.forums.wordpress.com/ I feel for you. Both my parents committed suicide when I was 15, 6 months apart.

You will never forget, but the pain will lessen with time. The hardest part is not knowing why.

]]> hnsaifi on "My friend sucides" http://en.forums.wordpress.com/topic/my-friend-sucides#post-922113 Fri, 22 Jun 2012 17:40:50 +0000 hnsaifi 922113@http://en.forums.wordpress.com/ Sorry for the bad link above Anshaal Malik (Shali).
Thanks TT! I'll act upon one of them.
He was even less than 18.
Thanks to everyone else too.

]]> absurdoldbird on "My friend sucides" http://en.forums.wordpress.com/topic/my-friend-sucides#post-921490 Fri, 22 Jun 2012 01:17:47 +0000 absurdoldbird 921490@http://en.forums.wordpress.com/ I'm so sorry, hnsaifi. Hugs.

]]> jessielansdel on "My friend sucides" http://en.forums.wordpress.com/topic/my-friend-sucides#post-921020 Thu, 21 Jun 2012 17:43:59 +0000 jessielansdel 921020@http://en.forums.wordpress.com/ Oh Hnsaifi, I am so very sorry. There is nothing I can say to ease your heartache so I won't try. TTs ideas are good ones and when you feel able I hope you can carry out one of her suggestions.

My thoughts are with you at this sad and difficult time for you.

Take care,

Jess.

]]> raincoaster on "My friend sucides" http://en.forums.wordpress.com/topic/my-friend-sucides#post-921017 Thu, 21 Jun 2012 17:42:23 +0000 raincoaster 921017@http://en.forums.wordpress.com/ That's terrible. I'm so sorry. Only 18.

]]> timethief on "My friend sucides" http://en.forums.wordpress.com/topic/my-friend-sucides#post-920880 Thu, 21 Jun 2012 16:11:16 +0000 timethief 920880@http://en.forums.wordpress.com/ I'm so sad to hear this. I too have had a friend who sommitted suicide. My mother died 6 months ago and one of my friends died of cancer this week. Take good care of yourself. When you feel ready, do something creative to honor the memory of your beloved friend. Some options include: writing a letter to the person who died to say everything you wish you could say to them; making a commemorative scrapbook depicting the times you shared together; planting flowers or trees; or involving yourself in a cause or activity that your friend loved.

]]> hnsaifi on "My friend sucides" http://en.forums.wordpress.com/topic/my-friend-sucides#post-920765 Thu, 21 Jun 2012 13:56:09 +0000 hnsaifi 920765@http://en.forums.wordpress.com/ My dearest friend Anshaal (Shali) has comitted sucide yesterday. He was 18-. We were friends since born. I can't seem to have anything to relief this deepest grief. OH GOD! MY BEST FRIEND IS NO MORE.

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