Scopettg,
But here's the issue, to get a server is one thing, to manage the technical part is another. As you know, there are plenty of critters out there on the internet who'd mess with things for reasons you've totally the wildest of imagination.
Yes, unfortunately, we don't live in a perfect world and malicious people are always trying how to mess you up. Having said that, nowadays managing the technical part (which I believe you're referring to managing a server, correct me if I'm mistaken) is pretty easy unless you are setting up your server yourself. Why is it "easy", well because there are many hosting providers that do take care of securing their servers against cracking attempts (crackers are one thing and hackers are another thing. Hackers build things, crackers destroy them. Unfortunately the term is widely misuse, but lest I digress... that's a conversation for another time).
There are several hosting providers that do take security seriously and do their best to keep your data secure from crackers.
I saw your blog from your link in the post above and I saw some Chinese. If you're not in main land China, access to hosting providers here in the US should be pretty easy and without restrictions. I'm saying this because you might want to consider researching what hosting providers would best fit your needs.
I would recommend (in no particular order):
a) Dreamhost
b) HostGator
c) MDDHosting
You can search for reviews of these providers on WebHostingTalk
With these hosting providers, you don't need to worry about system updates: PHP, MySQL, Apache, etc. They do that. The only thing you'd have to take care of is updating the wordpress (or another blogging) software yourself. The current wordpress version has a button that you just click and the software updates itself... no need to download and upload those files to your server.
Security is the same as important on a self-hosted blog as it is on a wp.com hosted one. It depends of the strength of your password. If you choose a weak one, you're account will be cracked; it won't if otherwise.
So for self-hosting, it's all the same.
Is not, for the reasons I posted above.
Regarding Bing and what happened to Sally. I don't know her, and I don't want to assume, but unfortunately a LOT of people never read the steps nor the license agreements, they just click next, next, next, ok. They don't even bother to double check if a "Yes, I want to make ___________[fill in blank]________ my default search engine" checkbox is checked or not. Bing is run by Microsoft, and they know that by law they're required to present the users with all the information and privacy policies when such person is installing their software... Again, I wasn't there when she installed the software, but I bet they did ask if she wanted to make Bing her default search engine. That's why it's ALWAYS recommended to take your time and read whatever steps the software is presenting you when installing something. There have been times when I didn't finish installing a program because:
a) I didn't agree with their TOS
b) I didn't agree with their privacy policy
c) I was required to isntall something else in order to use their software
If I just went through the isntallation process without reading anything, who knows how much junk my computer would have now.
Since I ended up canceling the installation process of those programs, I looked for alternatives until I found those whose TOS and policies were more acceptable for me.
Bottom line is to read eveyrthing when isntalling something. Can be tedious? yes, but better safe than sorry.
With a self-hosted blog, you're lord and master of your domain. Is that simple. You can put ads, flash, javascript, iframes... etc.
So unless you are a technical guy with the Wire-God around blessing you, you are better off finding a good host and keep BING and all those silly hands off your blogging.
Not really, and I already explain that, unless you're setting up your server yourself. Besides, if you need to do something more "complex" Google can provide with lots of resources that can help you achieving what you want.
Bing is just another search engine... just as Google and Yahoo! are... and that's it. Bing should mess with your blogging at all, unless you installed their bar or something like that. I have FIVE self-hosted blogs and have never had a problem with Bing or other service like that.
See? That's the big issue of finding a host that would leave you alone on blogging. I have to input this link everytime I post something.
Well, if you been around these forums for some time, you'd have noticed that volunteers always ask for the URL of the person's blog because whatever may work for a self-hosted blog won't work here. Here the problem that people DON'T read is again clear: they don't take the time to read the stickies and they just assume that because the header has the WordPress logo, they can ask here if they have a problem with a SQL statement or a PHP error.
Because people DON'T read, they sign up for a wp.com blog and later wonder WHY they can't use Google Ads. They don't even bother to SEARCH the forums before posting a question that was probably answer 5 minutes ago.... And I could go on and on....
Did I digress? sorry if I did, just wanted to clarify things for you since it seems to me that you have a misconception of how some stuff work.
PS. sorry if you find errors in my post, but right now I'm just too tired to proofread it.