You're original question is:
I would like to use this widget IF I could find it on my hosted blog, could someone tell me which widget this is I have searched wordpress.org and here. All it does is show how many hits your blog got which is something simple, I dont really need all the bells and whistles and glitter.
In an attempt to help you I have been over to the wordpress.org forum and I have conferred with the other volunteer helping on this forum so I hope you are not implying anything weird via your Capitalized word in your post.
Clearly - we cannot help you :(
We do not know for sure how you can acquire the widget. We believe you may have to join wordpress.com and get a global dashboard to do so.