I have visited your blog and I will help you. You are new to blogging so I'd like to do what I refer to as a walk through.
The reason you are having such difficulty with locating posts and pages can be addressed quite easily. When we are done this you and your readers will be able to locate them with all with ease.
The theme you have chosen does not have static Page tabs in a horizontal menu across the top of your blog. What that means is that the only front page access to those static Pages and any sub-pages you created must be established by placing a Pages widget in your sidebar. When that's done all the permalinked Pages (and if applicable sub-pages) you have created will display in your sidebar and when clicked the content will become available.
Access to Pages and Sub-Pages
> Appearance > Widgets
Locate the Pages widget and using your mouse drag it out of the Available widgets box and drop it into the sidebar box. Then click the top right hand corner of the widget to open it and inside you will see:
Title:
Sort by:
Exclude:
Page IDs, separated by commas.
Delete | Close SAVE
Make your choices and click SAVE and Close.
Note: To find the Page ID, go to Pages->Edit and hover over the title of the page. The status bar of your browser will display a URL with a numeric ID at the end. This is the page ID. See the illustration here > http://en.support.wordpress.com/widgets/pages-widget/
Access to Recent Posts
At present there is no access to your posts except through the Archives widget in your sidebar. However, you can establish front page access for you and your readers by placing the Recent Posts widget in your sidebar. When that's done up to 15 posts you have created will display in your sidebar as permalinked Post titles and when clicked the content will become available.
> Appearance > Widgets
Locate the Recent Posts widget and using your mouse drag it out of the Available widgets box and drop it into the sidebar box. Then click the top right hand corner of the widget to open it and inside you will see:
Title:
Number of posts to show:
(at most 15)
Delete | Close SAVE
Make your choices and click SAVE and Close.
I hope this helps you. :)