oops, that got submitted too early. This is what I was going to add...
"Don't be too hard on @embrace. Really I also wondered if you were legit."
I think this is where the last confusion came -b/c this issue was already dead and gone, so to her, it didn't make sense bringing it up again. I understand her pov. She was the one that was mistreated so it didn't make sense not to be hard on someone mistreating her -that she wasn't being hard on. IMO, Spydercat, part of the reason you were mistreated had to do with you saying that people have to be polite and respectful -IMO, this sets you up. Just keep going.