My comments and replies do not display on the WordPress blogging buddy post. I replied four times to Jason (his post = January 11, 2011 9:08 a.m.). The first two replies appeared briefly with the "awaiting moderation" phrase, then disappeared. The last two, from January 15th, are still "awaiting moderation." I posted four comments directly to the WordPress post. They appear briefly with the "awaiting moderation" phrase, then are gone when I check back later.
I contacted the WordPress Happiness Engineers (#684745) and they responded that the blog has comments set to moderation. That doesn't explain why my replies and comments disappear. The text of my messages is the "here's my blog and what it is about" message just like everyone else's.
I do not know what to do differently to get my replies and comments to display. I used three different computers and two different browsers (I'm grasping at straws, I know). I've been both logged on and not logged on to my blog when I replied. I started replying/commenting on January 12th, and I'm still invisible. I signed up for both the postaday2011 and postaweek2011 challenges.
The original WordPress blogging buddy post: http://dailypost.wordpress.com/2011/01/10/want-a-blogging-buddy-it-will-up-your-morale/
The blog I need help with is bakbay.wordpress.com.