@pipedreaming - Your name links to your other site, teendocs.com and at your blog, you tell quite a bit about yourself, your age and life, and ask people to link to your teendocs.com site. I think what lettershometoyou and raincoaster were trying to do was help you protect yourself online because they assumed you were an unsuspecting teen who didn't realize the p*rn/spammer thing would be a result of your title and such. Given that your goal is to run a teen site that calls itself a teen site, you will probably be a target for much of what you don't want, like the links you posted here about.
I think it might be wise to reconsider how much personal information about yourself you want to share online, but if you're determined to go ahead with your plans, you will have to just accept what will come your way because what's in many of your posts on both sites is what will undoubtedly send the icky stuff your way.
Please stay safe. You've already posted quite a bit about yourself. Be careful not to talk about specifics, like schools, extra-curricular activities and such because that kind of information is all it takes for someone to actually stalk you in real life.