After months of updating and figuring trying to figure things out I have come to the conclusion that WordPress.com just does not want to help me out.
I have emailed support time and time again. My server host AT&T has done everything it can but the issue is simply through wordpress.
If you look at my mx records you can see that they are not updating to what they are supposed to. Which is 188.8.131.52
If someone anyone can please help I will be extremely grateful and if this is something serious which needs to be handled I am ready to compensate or send you a starbucks gift...... please!
The blog I need help with is rmfineinc.com.