You are talking to the world's most impatient person! But, the fact that I am super unsavvy with the computer will prevent me from changing things, because I don't know how. I was just a little worried because register.com had 4 of the DNS things, and wordpress instructions only had NS1.wordpress, NS2. . . . . etc. So i just followed suit and added my own NS4. . . I thought maybe that screwed something up.
Also, it's weird that I can somehow get to my dashboard and still do new posts, but not see what I'm posting.
Thanks for your reply!