I have been trying for 2 days to migrate my wordpress.com blog to self hosted at BlueHost following both the instructions on this site and their site. Neither they nor I can get the file that I "exported" here to upload "there". After trying several methods, the last attempt gives an error message that says "XML file specified was either malformed or incomplete." which leads me to think there is a problem with the export from wordpress.com. I have exported it about 8 different times over the past two days. I am out of ideas.
The blog I need help with is accordingtocarey.com.