I wasn't going to post again on this issue, but here I am.
When I got up this morning and discovered the thread was still active, I was sick about the fact that I posted the link to her site late last night, when I was tired and careless.
Not only that, my context for the link didn't communicate at all what I was thinking:
that the lady has some issues, that it might be worth taking a look at hercontext, and then letting it go.
I learned a couple of lessons myself in all this, and I'm grateful for that. It's somewhat ironic that my current post discusses making mistakes - believe I might go read it again.