Despite scouring the forums and my dashboard features, I can't seem to get the pingbacks to appear on my blog in a neat, numbered link-fashion. I have followed the directions in Intro to Blogging. Perhaps my theme doesn't support it, but I can't tell. I have enabled all the appropriate boxes in the Discussion tab.
Thus far all I know to do is to approve the pingbacks that appear as comments, although all this does is make them appear in my comments as links to my blog. Thank you for any help!
p.s.: I can't quite decipher the paragraph in the Intro instructions:
If there is someone that wants to send a trackback to your WordPress blog because their blogging software does not support pingbacks, your trackback URL they should insert into their post edit panel is your blog post's permalink with "trackback/" appended to the end. If their software supports pingbacks, they do not need to do anything, the process is automatic.
The blog I need help with is southernseamuse.wordpress.com.