@cookphotoworks, as the support bot says,
The blog you specified at cookphotoworks.com does not appear to be hosted at WordPress.com.
This support forum is for blogs hosted at WordPress.com. If your question is about a self-hosted WordPress blog then you'll find help at the WordPress.org forums.
You need to go here: http://wordpress.ORG/support/ which is where self-hosted sites are supported.
@dellana, see the above if your site is self-hosted. We cannot help you here at the wordpress.COM hosting service. If your site is physically hosted here at wordpress.COM, then this will apply to you:
We cannot add themes at wordpress.COM. We are limited to the 170+ (and growing) themes found in the dashboard under appearance > themes. Themes found on the internet are for self-hosted wordpress blogs using the software from wordpress.ORG.
Themes at wordpress.COM have to be modified to work within the restrictions here and to support the unique features.
The differences between wordpress.com and wordpress.org (self-hosted) sites.