Forgive me if this isn't clear, as I'm having trouble understanding exactly what is going on myself. I have two blogs. Awhile ago, I made the first one private, and made the second one my primary one. I also hid the first one from the dashboard, and made only the second viewable. All was well; the options under "My Account" and the "My Dashboard" link always took me directly to the pages pertaining to the second blog.
Today I noticed that the options listed in the "My Account" dropdown menu are now pointing towards my first blog. The "My Dashboard" menu isn't a dropdown, and instead it takes me straight to the first blog -- not the second. I have played around with the visibility settings, but to no avail -- if I hide the first blog from the dashboard and make the second one visible, clicking on "My Dashboard" always sends me off to the first one.
I would like to keep the first one private and hidden from the dashboard, and the second one public and viewable via the dashboard, as the second one is the one I use the most.