Your Statcounter and your map counter shows you have had hits. And if you host your own site yourself, questions should be asked at the WordPress.org forum because our free blogs here at WordPress.com runs under a different software.
writerken: is your blog hosted at WordPress.com? If not, you need to read the thread marked Read Me First at teh top of the forums.
If your blog is hosted here, use appropriate tags on posts and people will find you. Linking your username in these forums to a non-WP.com site will not help you at all; it is counterproductive in the extreme.